The Clan

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Stirred Up Soup

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Hi, I'm Mama Soup. I am the home manager for this crazy clan and I have made it my personal mission to record, here on this blog, our attempts at simplifying our life. I am usually wearing an apron and either cooking up some treat or thinking about what I can cook. I also love to paint, jog and drink hot tea. Welcome and thanks for visiting.

Friday, September 16, 2011

New Blog Address!

ATTENTION: We have moved!

please come check us out at www.stirredupsoup.com (our very own web page). It is still under construction to some degree, but is now up and running. Let me know what you think!

Peace,
Mama Soup

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Homemade Grape Juice

I blame Megan (www.shewearsboots.blogspot.com). She signed me up for this amazing CSA and yesterday I got my first share. I had a huge bunch of concord grapes that smelled fantastic. I quickly popped one in my mouth and realized why people dislike them. First, the grape did not "pop" like grocery store grapes, it was firm, but jelly like. Then, as I bit further in I hit the seeds (which is when I realized I could not give them to my toddlers). Finally, the skin was impossible to chew all the way up, I just had to swallow it.

All that said, though, they were delicious! The flavor was wonderful and I did not want my young ones to miss out on such a fabulous fresh taste (worlds better than the fake fruit flavors that line the grocery store shelves). I thumbed through the rest of the share and realized that they had (cleaverly) provided suggested recipes and their facebook address to reference for further ideas. I quickly looked on line and found the link for homemade grape juice.

Perfect! What child does not like grape juice and it would be such a treat. My children never get juice; it's too expensive and basically just sugar (so why bother is what I usually think). But fresh, homemade grape juice from perfectly ripened and locally grown concord grapes is a different story entirely.

Here is where I started (recipe from simplyrecipies.com). Gorgeous, honestly, fresh food just does it for me.




Then I washed the grapes and removed the stems.




Next, I poured them in a pot over medium high heat and mashed them slightly (I used a potato masher).




Finally, after 10 minutes and one other mashing, I had this.




I took the above and strained it. I left it straining on the counter, covered with a kitchen towel, while I went to fetch the children from school. My kitchen smelt so fruity and sweet I couldn't wait to leave so I could come back in and have that fragrance hit me as I opened the door (which is exactly what happened).

Upon returning the kids rushed into the kitchen, stripped their shirts (because I made them) and climbed up for their cup of homemade grape juice. Here are the results. I think the pictures really sum it up.

I tried to get them to look at me for a picture, but nobody would put down their cup. I don't think Elias even breathed.



This might actually be my favorite. I think you might have to know Bebe to appreciate it fully, but either way it's impressive.




Elias seemed to have less smeared around because he drank it all in one gulp.




So simple and so delicious. Thank you Horse and Buggy. I will be calling you tomorrow for more grapes (actually Jonah wants to try grape jelly too, maybe that's tomorrow). Cheers.




Peace,
Mama Soup

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Comment problems

I understand that a number of people have tried to comment and have been unable. So sorry. I am going to do my best to remedy that problem. Please check back tomorrow, as I am hoping that tonight I can come up with a solution. Upcoming topics, just to keep you interested, are as follows (in no particular order):

CSA

Swimming pools

Green products

Cloth diapering

and more on.....

House size (can you tell I'm obsessing?)

Peace,
Mama Soup

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Closet is done

Turns out I have even more clothes than I thought. Surprise, surprise. I bet most of us would say the same if we truly sat down and laid them all out. Really, there was no way I could wear all of the clothes I had, partly because some of them didn't even fit.

Here is where I started.


This is the pile of stuff I actually wear day to day (which is why it is in a pile).


This is the rest of my closet.


And this is my dresser.


I began by just dumping everything on the bed and sorting into piles. 1. Throw away 2. Give away 3. Possibly sell (will probably just give it away though, to get it OUT of the house) 4. Keep. From there I sorted my keep stuff into seasonal and type of dress. Quick aside: I have three big totes of random "winter" clothes in the basement that are really just stuff left over from when I lived in Maine. Now it is hard to figure out what to do with a giant wool sweeter when it never even comes close to - 30 degrees. So that project is for another day. It is more memorabila stuff than clothing at this point.

Once all items were organized, I cleaned out the closet space and started adding stuff back in. Here is what I ended up with. Keep in mind I am not on "Wear this, not that" or whatever it's called. I'm a simply dressed person or as my NYC living fashion designer best friend from LA says, I have no sense of style. I like it that way. So just take note of the amount and organization of the whole thing, not the actual articles of clothing.



I have nothing in my dresser and I am happy about that. Those drawers are annoying to open anyway.

I'm pretty happy with the results. I have two giant trash bags full of Goodwill items along with another box of "possibly sell" stuff and a small trash can I filled with things that should have been thrown out years ago.

I still have more than I need, but at least I am headed in the right direction and it feels good.

Peace,
Mama Soup

Monday, September 12, 2011

De-Cluttering update

In a nut shell, it's not going well.

Hum, let me put a positive spin on that; I still have a lot of opportunity to organize in my future.

Why you ask? What has happened? Children. Children and (to be honest) just keeping up with my daily tasks that would take much LESS time if I simplified all the stuff I have to do. Simplifying is much harder than it seems like it should be. I think I need to break it down and be more black and white.

Tomorrow is a good day to start. Three of the four children are in school and the fourth usually happily goes along with whatever I suggest. Tomorrow I will go through my clothes.

I'm not a crazy fashionista by any stretch of the imagination, but I do have way more clothes than I need. I generally only wear the top layer of stuff from the pile on my closet floor, so I'm pretty sure the stuff on the bottom I could actually just set aside for Goodwill and never know the difference. However, I will have to go through it and just look one more time to make sure (you never know what I might find).

So, tomorrow it is. I have committed. I will post my success (and maybe even a picture) when I am done. Wish me luck!

Peace,
Mama Soup

Sunday, September 11, 2011

How much house do we need?

At the end of the day, when all the children are asleep and most of the mess is picked up I sit down to take a few breaths and just look around. What I have noticed is that my house feels huge. I am not bragging, not at all. The only reason we have this huge house is because we snatched an amazing deal and we are renting.

Skip the next paragraph if you know me well; you already know this.

Brief history: We lived a an adorably cute tiny cape cod right downtown with an equally adorably cute tiny yard. We loved it. We had one child and it was perfect. Then, all the sudden we had three children and directly after another one on the way. Our house started feeling claustrophobic. We agreed that the size was difficult at times, but the layout was impossible. The house was full of tiny rooms and you could not see or hear anyone from any other room (great if you are trying to ignore someone but not great from a small child safety standpoint). So, we put our house up for sale for about one week. One week was all it took for me to decide that this was a terrible idea and there was absolutely no way I could keep my house clean with all those hands and feet bopping about. Fast forward three months and I got a call from a realtor that wanted to know if we were still interested in selling. "Yes" I said, trying not to sound too excited. A few more weeks later and our house was sold, we had no where to go and our 4th baby was due very soon. That is how we ended up renting (something we said we did not want to do but are happy we did).

The house we are in now is about 3 times the size of the house we sold. It is interesting how quickly you can fill up space with unnecessary junk. When thinking about simplifying I wonder, how much house do we really need? I am curious about other people's opinions. We have this house rented until June, at which point we are considering purchasing. We would like to buy a home that we can raise our children in and hopefully pay off sooner rather than later.

I have read up on the statistics of house sizes. It is pretty eye opening. Here is what I have found.

As the average size of our American families decrease, 3.1 people in 1974 to 2.6 people in 2004 the average size of our homes have drastically increased from 1,695 sq ft in 1974 to 2,349 sq ft in 2004. Interestingly, this scary market crash/ foreclosure nightmare has actually had many more people re-evaluate how much house they truly need. In 2008 the census data showed that the average size of homes under construction fell from an average of 2,629 sq ft in the second quarter to 2,343 sq ft in the fourth quarter.

To sum it all up, I feel like my "McMansion" as a dear friend calls it, is in deed just that, over the top. While I love my giant walk-in pantry, my laundry room that is the same size of my old kitchen and a master suite that is larger than most people's NYC apartments it does not seem necessary and actually has some draw backs. Number one on my list is cleaning. It takes me all week to go through the house and clean all of my rooms (7 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms). My old house I could clean in an afternoon and happily spend the rest of the time playing with the children. Also, our utilities bills (while somewhat better than expected because this is a newer home) are still much more than need be. And then the issue of accumulated junk, as mentioned before. If I am really going to simplify, and I am serious about this, then I think my home should reflect my values. What are your thoughts?

Friday, September 9, 2011

Best Telemarketing Conversation Ever

It has been a long few days, so I'm going to keep this short. We seem to have some kind of virus circulating through the house that causes hives, asthma attacks and extreme crankiness; for the adults it causes head aches. So here it goes....

I got a call the other day. The kind of call that you have say "hello?" two or three times before you hear a click and someone says, "Hi, Ms. Campbell" right at the same time that you have a discussion with yourself if you want to hang up or not. If you wait longer than .03 seconds then you know that you'll be caught for the next 5 minutes trying to figure out exactly what they are selling and how you can get off the phone politely.

Well, I didn't hang up when I should have. After I acknowledge them I feel it is rude to just hang up, but if they don't hear me say anything first then for some reason it does not feel rude. Do my eight readers feel the same? Regardless, I didn't hang up. A very bubbly girl started chatting to me about my prize package that I would be receiving shortly, blah, blah, blah.....and then, Cliffy started crying.

I went to Cliffy, wedged the phone between my shoulder and ear and picked him up. He did not stop crying so I kept listening to dumb dumb on the other end of the phone try to stutter through her lines as I bounced him around the house. Finally, she paused and said in an annoyed voice, "Ma'am, I'm just going to have to call you back later. That baby is hurting my ears."

I smiled at Cliffy and said, "great, bye."

I hope that conversation was recorded for quality assurance and listened to by her boss.

Peace,
Mama Soup